{"id":1739,"date":"2025-05-29T16:02:00","date_gmt":"2025-05-29T16:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/?p=1739"},"modified":"2025-08-05T16:11:47","modified_gmt":"2025-08-05T16:11:47","slug":"the-innocents-abroad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/the-innocents-abroad\/","title":{"rendered":"The Innocents Abroad"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"992\" height=\"558\" src=\"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2820.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1740\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2820.jpeg 992w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2820-300x169.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2820-768x432.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2820-440x248.jpeg 440w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2820-640x360.jpeg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 992px) 100vw, 992px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Travel to faraway lands&nbsp;is inherently mysterious. I just arrived from a 10-day European adventure, not with my usual&nbsp;travel partner (husband Mark), but with a few friends &#8211; old and new &#8211; as we became a merry band of innocents.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"736\" height=\"1000\" src=\"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2821.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1741\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2821.jpeg 736w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2821-221x300.jpeg 221w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2821-471x640.jpeg 471w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 736px) 100vw, 736px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Mystery with the language, the weather, the lay\u00a0of the land &#8211; each day we faced something new and exciting.\u00a0<em>Some<\/em>\u00a0of us had been to\u00a0<em>some<\/em> of these places before, and thus we shared what we knew and what we didn\u2019t know along the way. We enriched each other\u2019s experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2822-819x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1742\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2822-819x1024.jpeg 819w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2822-240x300.jpeg 240w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2822-768x960.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2822-512x640.jpeg 512w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2822.jpeg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Weather in San Sebasti\u00e1n, Spain ranged from frigid winds to balmy breezes.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>My friend and colleague,&nbsp;<strong>Dawn Summers<\/strong>, recently sent excerpts from&nbsp;<strong>Mark Twain\u2019s 1869 travel book,&nbsp;<em>The Innocents Abroad<\/em><\/strong>. The words rang true for me:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cJust in this one matter lies the main character of life in Europe &#8211; of comfort.&nbsp; In America, we hurry &#8211; which is well; but when the day&#8217;s work is done, we go on thinking of losses and gains, we plan for the morrow, we even carry our business cares to bed with us, and toss and worry over them when we ought to be restoring our racked bodies and brains with sleep\u2026.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201dI do envy these Europeans the comfort they take. When the work of the day is done, they forget it. &#8230;They are appreciative of life and its manifold blessings. &#8230;We bestow thoughtful care upon inanimate objects, but none of it upon ourselves.&nbsp;What a robust people, what a nation of thinkers we might be, if we would only lay ourselves on the self occasionally&#8230;!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;&#8230;The change that has come over our little [travel] party is surprising. Day by day we lose some of our restlessness and absorb some of the spirit of quietude and demeanor of the people. We grow wise apace. We begin to comprehend what life is for.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2823-819x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1744\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2823-819x1024.jpeg 819w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2823-240x300.jpeg 240w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2823-768x960.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2823-1229x1536.jpeg 1229w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2823-512x640.jpeg 512w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2823.jpeg 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">A solo cab ride in London<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I enjoy big-city energy, but I am drawn to quieter places, where I can feel my body and mind unfold within more subtle rhythms of living.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As Dawn will be joining us for the October retreat, I look forward to learning from her&nbsp;experience as I offer&nbsp;up what I know about this little corner of Portugal. Perhaps it is calling to you too. &#x1f440;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_9014-768x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1745\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_9014-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_9014-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_9014-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_9014-1536x2048.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_9014-480x640.jpeg 480w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_9014-scaled.jpeg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"819\" src=\"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2818-1024x819.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1746\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2818-1024x819.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2818-300x240.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2818-768x614.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2818-640x512.jpeg 640w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2818.jpeg 1284w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>October&nbsp;is the perfect time for an escape.<\/strong>&nbsp;We have such an amazing trip planned. I can\u2019t wait to share this beautiful place with you.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2353-819x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1747\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2353-819x1024.jpeg 819w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2353-240x300.jpeg 240w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2353-768x960.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2353-1229x1536.jpeg 1229w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2353-1639x2048.jpeg 1639w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2353-512x640.jpeg 512w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_2353.jpeg 1661w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text is-stacked-on-mobile\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/att.BJ7cREnGv2BnPlI3nVIqoR7M90gF37cefHzh3dAnszY-576x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1748 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/att.BJ7cREnGv2BnPlI3nVIqoR7M90gF37cefHzh3dAnszY-576x1024.jpeg 576w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/att.BJ7cREnGv2BnPlI3nVIqoR7M90gF37cefHzh3dAnszY-169x300.jpeg 169w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/att.BJ7cREnGv2BnPlI3nVIqoR7M90gF37cefHzh3dAnszY-768x1365.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/att.BJ7cREnGv2BnPlI3nVIqoR7M90gF37cefHzh3dAnszY-864x1536.jpeg 864w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/att.BJ7cREnGv2BnPlI3nVIqoR7M90gF37cefHzh3dAnszY-360x640.jpeg 360w, https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/att.BJ7cREnGv2BnPlI3nVIqoR7M90gF37cefHzh3dAnszY.jpeg 1152w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p>Meet me in Portugal! &#x1f917;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/retreat\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Fall 2025 retreat<\/a>:&nbsp;<strong>October 11-18<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Early Bird Special: Save $200 when you place your deposit by\u00a0<strong>June 30<\/strong>.<br><br><a href=\"mailto:eve@evefleishman?subject=Portugal%20retreat&amp;body=I%E2%80%99m%20interested%20in%20details%20and%20pricing.%20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Email me<\/a>\u00a0for details and pricing.<br><br>Photo by Monika Zdziebkowska &#8211; a city center view\u00a0in Tavira, Portugal, our home base for the retreat.<br><br>Read all about it, check\u00a0out videos and more on the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.evefleishman.com\/retreat\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">retreat page.<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Travel to faraway lands&nbsp;is inherently mysterious. 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